4.8.10

Making friends

Men are such simple creatures. Women so complex. That is the very reason that most of the social leaders in the past have been men. It is easier to gain power by clubbing your opponent on the head then by guilting, loving and shaming them into submission.

I have always been one of those women who found common ground with men, much easier than women. There is something much more genuine, simple and powerful in the initial bonding process of guys. I have never been good at making friends with women, because the process has always seemed so strenuous, strained, and simulated. 

After a long stagnation, I have found that making friend, in general, is not easy anymore. And at times, on a night off, I have found no one to spend time with. This is so sad, but also motivating. It is time to leave to comfort of existing friendships and start some new ones... If only, in our age of technology, there was a way that spelled out how to do that. 


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